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Aroma
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| 03/22/2012 6:48 PM |
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| I have a question!!! I broke up with by ex boyfriend 4 years ago. We were together for a few years and have known one another for many years. Our relationship was long distance for a significant amount of time and at one point he moved to my state. I have tremendous respect and love for him. He is unlike anyone I have ever met and although he isn’t perfect, he has the most amazing heart, he is a man of integrity and I want to experience life with him. Over the last four years my life has been through its ups and downs, I went on a little bit of a bender and God has really shown me who He is and who he wants me to be. God is stretching me and growing me and I am struggling with the fact that I would like to tell my ex boyfriend about how I feel about him now. We do not live in the same state and I don’t know what his feelings are for me. We have limited contact because we don't live in the same city. I was recently in his state over the weekend and hang out with him a bit. We are able to talk about virtually anything and we enjoyed each others company with our friends around as well. What should I do? I’m now back in my state and have limited contact with him. Should I write him a letter as he is very expressive in words or should I call him? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. |
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Aroma
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| 03/22/2012 11:48 PM |
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| anyone have any advise for me?? I'm hoping to chat with him tonight |
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clare
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| 03/26/2012 9:57 PM |
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i don't feel it is right for the girl to be he first to express her feelings toward the man. There are many ways to let on you like him but wait for him to notice you, for him to be praying about it, and for him to come to you. If you tell him you have feelings for him that puts him in the incredibly awkward position of not wanting to hurt you, and yet if he is interested, not sure who is the "leader" in the relationship. Men need to feel they are the leader or in control.
By being friendlily, respectful and interested in what he is doing and what his interests are that will catch his attention, and leave him in the position of making the next move. |
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