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jfarleyUser is Offline

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03/03/2010 10:11 AM  
HI all,

I just received FWO last night in the mail and have read the first four chapters. My DH also got FMO. We are both already enjoying the books. Now for my question. Over the weekend my husband and I got onto an interesting topic. Well it stemmed from an argument, but lead to great discussion which happens a lot with us anyway my husband told me that he doesnt feel like I desire him, and I am sure he really feels this way. I do desire him, I love him, and respect him and honor him and tell him all the time the things he does that I appreciate. The problem I am having is I do know how to show him that I desire him. He tells me everyday that he loves me and that I am beautiful. What can I say that is the male equal? Does anyone have any tips on how I can help my husband feel more desired? He knows that he is the only one for me and that I love being his wife but he still needs to feel desired and I get that we all want to feel desired I just dont know how to show it.

Please help
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04/02/2010 8:24 PM  
I do desire him, I love him, and respect him and honor him and tell him all the time the things he does that I appreciate.

It sounds like you need help translating your love language!   I'm surprised your having this problem based on your post.  If you enjoy being intimate with him it is hard to believe he is not getting the message.  Was he a victim of abuse when he was young or did not have a loving mother?

I think you'll just have to repeat the quote to him and ask him about it.  Try to understand his love language.
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