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knightangel
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| 04/24/2009 8:56 AM |
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Here's my situation I am 26 yrs old going to 27 a born again, never been into relationship and now into a relationship. Im a filipina working in israel and meet my boyfriend on the internet one of the christian dating site. His an american a bornagain also. for how many years of my single life i've been praying for the right man a man who loves Jesus more than anything and I found it. My boyfriend is really a godly man by the way he talks and and according to his friend whom he introduce to me. we share bible verse together, we pray before we start this relationship. we still pray over the internet and one day we agree to get married ...but this day his having a double minded but he wants that our relationship will work out. His worries what would his pastor going to say what his friend going to say cuz we planned to meet in my country wherein i can introduce him to my parents he has no worry on that but he just worry on what people will say...
Now im also doubting and kinda want to cry cuz i dont know if i made the wrong choice i like him a lot, i have peace about this relationship the only thing that hurts me is when he will say to me his "kinda ". and sometimes im tired of all teh negative things im hearing sometimes i want to give up and say i had enough. is it worth continuing this relationship or not???? I really do like him a lot and i can see that he can be a great godly husband. anyone help.....???/
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Travis
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| 04/24/2009 10:47 AM |
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Well, I'm no expert on this. But, if you met someone on the internet, you need to FIRST not think about getting married. Thats a big step and thats God's decision in both of your lives. And since this is your first relationship, your going to be really happy being with him and your going to think that he's the one, and that you want to marry him, but its not about what we want. You need to hand this over to God and see what he tells you.
You shouldn't think about marriage until your at least 2 years in a relationship. Cause those first two years are just the "in love" feeling. Its not true love until you've really gotten to know that person.
I think you need to take it slow since you guys haven't met and don't hang out. Its a hole different story when you guys hang out for a long time.
Don't worry about what other people. If they are helping, listen. If they are not, then they truly don't care about you. And if they are helping, it might not be what you want to hear.
Ultimately, you need to give this to God and ask him if you guys are supposed to be together. He will tell you what he wants you to do; according to His Will.
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knightangel
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| 04/24/2009 2:34 PM |
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| thanks travis actually im going to meet him on may 14 and introduce him to my family and friends... I have already lay this down to God and ur right but from the books ive read its like they are saying make the decision and give to God something like that and i remember what t.d jakes says in his book "making a decision u wont regret" ur right i have to do all the background cheakings and get to know him more. Thanks, anyway i will see him and see if he fits or not.. thanks |
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knightangel
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| 05/02/2009 11:40 AM |
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| hey actually i found out that even tho both of you are christians still u have to weigh if that person is true and i found out his a liar and his really a christian.... carefull on internet dating i learn my lesson hopefully no one will do the same i did.. its really not good... |
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